Yes, a vasectomy seems like the right choice, but before you and your spouse decide on it, here is what you need to know..
A vasectomy is a surgical procedure, which makes a man permanently unable to father a child, i.e., makes him sterile.
Here are a few concerns that you and your spouse must discuss.
- Are you certain that you don't want kids in the future?
- If no, is either of you willing to adopt any other birth control method?
- Do you have any serious health condition that makes pregnancy unsafe for you?
Once you have these details sorted out, you will be in a better position to make a decision.
Avoid a vasectomy if:
You are unaware of what the procedure involves.
- You are unsure about family planning.
- Your family is dealing with a financial setback or issues that could turn around in the long run.
- You are in an unstable relationship.
Men, especially in India, consider vasectomy as losing one's manhood.
"This is more psychological than physical. A vasectomy does not make a man lose his virility. It does not affect his sex drive or male characteristics," says Mumbai-based gynaecologist Dr. Ranjana Dhanu.
Helping Him Cope
According to sexologist Dr. Prakash Kothari, "Sterility and virility are two different things. A vasectomy will not affect a person's desire levels or sexual performance."
Make sure you get all these doubts cleared before undergoing the surgery.
Despite all the counselling, there might be a possibility that your spouse still feels a little uncomfortable about it.
As his partner, provide him with moral support. Keep the lines of communication open and speak with a sexologist to dispel any doubts.
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