Talk it Out
"If an unwanted pregnancy occurs, partners often play the blame game," says Dr. Bhosle "The woman feels cheated because she feels he did not do anything to prevent the pregnancy. The man feels cheated because he assumed she was on the pill when she really wasn't."

This is why it is very important to talk about the contraception options available and which ones are for you. A couple should sit down and talk about the responsibilities involved and how to share it equally.

He might not be aware that the pills you are taking are affecting you. Or you might be unaware that he does not like using the condom. To avoid any conflicts, the best approach is to talk about your concerns on contraception openly.

Be Responsible
No one partner is responsible for contraception. Sex is a two-way street and both partners should be willing to share responsibilities and remind the other of theirs.

In case the condom tears in between intercourse, be responsible enough to stop and use a new one. If you are on the pill, remember to take it regularly. Or check your intrauterine device regularly.

Finally, it is most important to be responsible for oneself.