- Proposal, Proposal
It is natural for you and your family to be concerned about you getting another proposal especially in Indian society.
Dr. Rajiv Anand Advises: You'd rather wait and marry the right person, than rush into marriage with the wrong one.
Remember, one who truly loves and appreciates you will accept you for who you are. He will not make his decision based on a broken engagement in the past.
If you are really keen on getting married then ask around for proposals through your friends' and family. This is because they know you best and they will know about the kind of person you are looking for.
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- Future In-Laws, Future Problems?
It is natural for you to worry about your future in-laws finding about your broken engagement. However instead of worrying about it, here is what you should do.
Dr. Rajiv Anand Advises: There is no need to feel embarrassed or guilty about your broken engagement. While Indian society will usually blame you and try to find fault, you have nothing to worry about.
Tell your future in-laws about the previous engagement. This is difficult to do, but they'd rather hear it from you and your family than a third person.
If your in-laws to be are sensible, they will not bother about the past and accept you for who you are. You need to remember that no matter what it is best that you tell them about the first engagement.
It would be best that you stay realistic about how your future in-laws will react to your previous engagement. They will want to know why it broke off and who was at fault. So be prepared for a lot of probing personal questions.
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- Low on Confidence
Your confidence will also be on an all time low. Remember, this is natural.
However, your ex-fiancé may have had his reasons for calling the engagement off. You are who you are and his reasons can never ever undermine the person you are.
Dr. Rajiv Anand Advises: If you are feeling low, make sure you concentrate on your achievements and capabilities you know you have.
It is entirely upto you to either take charge of your life and steer it out of this minor ditch. You need not be a victim based on someone else's act.
So while it is natural for you to feel low, concentrate on your qualities and your strength.













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