According to Dr. Syeda, bedroom secrets should be best kept with you. "This is just too personal to be discussed about," she informs.

Naushaba Ara, a Kolkata-based jewellery designer, says, "I don't ever discuss my relationship with my friends, whether they are common friends or even close friends!"

As a cardinal rule, any issue that can be harmful for your partner's self esteem, or something that he might be ashamed of, should be kept to yourself.

Give Your Friends a Break!

"Common friends of mine would come to me with their problems! At first, I wanted to help, but then it got really irritating," complains media professional Jatin Lucky.

Really, you don't need to go to friends with all your problems! Talking to close pals helps sometimes, but not always.

If you disclose your darkest relationship secrets to your friends, they would obviously have a mental image of your relationship.

Consequently, his or her relationship with you could also become awkward.

Moral of the Story…

Keep mum about the juicy stuff! If you had a fight with your partner, and you want to vent your feelings, go ahead, talk to your pal!

But, make sure you don't spill what should be only in your bowl! Learn to have respect for your relationship and for your partner. Keep private matters private! This will not only create a healthy relationship between you both, but also will attract respect from your friends and acquaintances.

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