So you've fallen for a divorcee and decided to marry him and you think you are prepared right? But you may not be as prepared as you think you are.

If he is a divorcee without a child, be prepared for questions like: "why you are marrying him" or "what do you see in him".

Also be prepared to face conclusions like: "she had no choice", "she does not know what she is doing", "she is educated but still goes down this road".

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Your Prince charming is a divorcee with a child? If this is the case, the first thing you need to remember is that bonding with the child before the wedding is very different from bonding with the child after your wedding.

You also have to be sure of how often the child may visit the father or if the child lives with the father. You must be prepared that your husband will spend a good amount of time with his child.

He may also end up spending time with his ex-wife (this may happen if the child is small and needs both parents at school functions and other outings.)

In this case, speak to your husband before the wedding and tell him you understand that he needs to spend time with his child and ex-wife. But also stress on the fact that you too need to be included in his child's life gradually because that is the one way that you will be accepted as his mother.

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