- You are forcing yourself to meet him.
- You have no sentiments or don't miss him at all.
- You find that you are happy without him.
- You do not respect him anymore.
- You do not want anything to do with him.
- He is over-protective about you like you telling him where you go every time and what time you left the place.
There is a fine line between protection and over-protection, so the moment you feel that he is being unduly over-protective then do talk to him.
And the Truth Is
There are a few common myths about relationships going around. Psychologist and psychotherapist Varkha Chulani tells you like it is:
Opposites attract
If you have opposite views on multiple critical issues like money and religion then this becomes a major cause for concern.
People with similar points of view, like minded ideologies, similar sentiments and a similar view of life get along better and are able to solve problems easier than the other.
Remember if you have opposite views on critical issues like religion and money you could have serious problems as your relationship and time progresses simply because you'll believe different things.
For e.g. - Incase you are religious and your husband is not then issues regarding religious functions could become a problem for you two. You'll could go your own ways for a while but eventually the issue could come up.
Good Fighting?
Varkha Chulani says, "It depends on what kind of fights you'll are having. Couples are bound to have arguments as no two people are alike. You are safe as long as your arguments stay non personal."
However the moment your fights go on to being verbally and physically abusive then it is time to know that these fights are not good for your relationship.
So it is not about just fighting but also about the kind of fights that you have to pay attention to.
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