Office romances are not new in our 24x7 work culture.
From spending longer hours in office, sharing common experiences with coworkers, exploring challenging situations together to socialising and networking with them, it is not uncommon for cupid to strike in office.
"It is understandable. Most of us spend so much time at work; it is possible that we grow close to our colleagues. It is the office-spouse phenomenon," explains Seema Hingorrany, clinical psychologist and psychotherapist.
The decision around whether to date a coworker is extremely personal. The key to a successful office romance, whether it lasts or not, is how you handle it at work.
Here are a few guidelines to help develop a successful office romance without rocking any corporate boats.
Check Your Office Policy
While some companies have no rules when it comes to office romance, some companies forbid these relationships outright. Be sure to find out your company's policy on office dating and romantic relationships.
Romance Outside Office
Continue to be a true professional during work hours. If possible, one of you should think of moving to another department or branch.
Advises Hingorrany, "Keep away from each other's cubicles and do not show close proximity. Avoid office corners. If people spot you, it will spoil your name. Enjoy the meetings, baby talk and display of affection outside the office. Laying down ground rules may not be romantic, but will help you keep your work life professional and your social life unburdened by office issues."
Do Not Use Office E-Mail
It can be really tempting to use the office IM to send love notes to each other. But remember that office e-mail is often archived. You never know who may have access to your e-mail. If your personal discourse becomes public, it will set off a firestorm of company gossip.












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