
Public displays of affection (PDA) are rampant just about everywhere. Take a walk to your neighbourhood mall, the local jogger's park, the theatre or even the road….you see it everywhere.
Question is, is it okay?
Psychologist Dr. Leena Bahrani says, "Nowadays everything seems to be accepted. Saying that though, people brought up with a good value system will stay within limits when in public. There is a time and place for everything and when in public one should behave oneself."
Understanding PDA
PDA is any display of affection between two individuals in public. This could be a simple action like a mother kissing her son on his forehead, a hug between a father and daughter, an endearing embrace between two old friends.
Dr. Bahrani says, "The problem arises when the display becomes sexual. That is when people around you may get uncomfortable and take objection to your actions.
What is Okay?
- Light kissing - A peck on the cheek, a light one-second kiss on the lips, a kiss on the forehead or the head, or a gentle brush of your lips against his hand is okay.
- A bear hug - A bear hug is perfectly fine as long as you let go of your better half in a few seconds. A soft light kiss on the cheek too is okay at the end of the hug.
- Holding Hands - Nothing can be more endearing than a couple holding hands. This form of PDA is okay so go ahead and hold his hand for as long as you want.
- Arm round his waist - Putting your arm round his waist is okay as long as it stays there. You may get a few glances from people around you but if it stays at the waist then there is no problem at all.
- His arm round your shoulder - This is okay, infact it is a protective gesture
According to Dr. Leena Bahrani while you may put down your display to love and warmth for your partner there is a time and place for everything.
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