Attraction Counts

It doesn't matter if the person is a hunk or a boy next door, it is very important to him to have something that you are attracted to.

Sexologist Dr. Prakash Kothari says," Every person has his or her own reasons to be attracted to someone." Some women may be attracted to dark guys or even someone with good hair. It could be anything but sometime attraction is very important for a healthy sex life.

David DeAngelo, author of 'Double Your Dating' once during his seminars said, " I don't care I you're four feet tall and have one eye. If you can make women laugh consistently and get those good feelings flowing through them, they'll love you."

That proves that there are more ways to attract women (or visa versa) than by looks. However, the important thing to remember is that all this is only possible over time. This doesn't happen instantly. It happens after you grow to love a person.

If your partner meets with an accident and loses his sight, you would be his eyes and show the world to him. But, would you do the same for a complete stranger ?

There could also be another side of the story, that if you go by looks you will miss out on a lot of exciting things in life. If caviar and oysters were judged by its looks know one would know of the wonders it can do to your sex life.

But when you consider someone's looks it is not always about being unfair to the person. Your  partner's appearnace matters if you are concerned about your children's facial features. And sometimes the compliment, "You two make a beautiful pair", makes a lot of difference.