Psychiatrist Dr. Ketan Parmar says, "Cyber sex is termed as a kind of sexual addiction. In fact, some people get so addicted to it that cyber sex is the only form of sex they can think about."

It may start as a onetime trial of something new, but soon it turns into an addiction. The anonymity of the internet, the ability to live out one's wildest sexual fantasies and the belief that he will not get caught are all contributing factors to the addiction.

In fact, he may want to relive the chat fantasies with you in bed.

If you do suspect your husband of cyber sex then it is time you two talked about your situation.

Talk Away

In case your spouse indulges in cyber sex, talk to him about it. Broaching the subject will be odd but it must be done.

Ask him why he is doing it and what you can do to help him. If he refuses to open up to you, then here is what is needed.

• Your husband will have to go through psychological help.
  
  
• You need to talk to him and ask him if there is anything lacking in your marriage and sex life.
  
  
• You will also need joint counselling sessions.
  
  
• If he is obsessed with cyber sex, then certain medication will reduce his obsession.
  
  
• Role playing between you two will help make things different and renew your husband's interest in you.

Remember that cyber sex amounts to cheating and you must work towards solving the situation when you realise that your husband is indulging in it.