Divya Palat and Aditya Hitkari have known each other for 10 years before finally tying the knot.Divya says: The reason our marriage has stayed strong is because we discuss anything and everything about each other openly. We’ve known each other for 10 years and have dated for five years before getting married.
Making a marriage and especially a celebrity marriage work is difficult, but not impossible. We just do not allow rumours to fly about us. We attend almost all social gatherings together. This way people cannot and will not talk.
Besides, we never meet during the day because of our work commitments so the social dos are a terrific time for us to talk to each other and our friends.
I also believe that friendship plays an important role because that way we are honest to each other about everything.
We cannot possibly keep tabs on each other all the time, but if I ever need to talk to him or clear things with him, I have him on speed dial.
From friendship comes knowing and from knowing comes trust. So it is a combination of friendship, trust, understanding, commitment and of course love that helps a marriage tide through.
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Manasi Joshi Roy and Rohit Roy may not have been one of the best dance couples on Nach Baliye but they sure are on each other’s favourite list.
Manasi says: I feel a celebrity marriage and a common marriage are the same. The difference comes in because a celebrity marriage is under public eye all the time.
So, yes we do feel the pressure but there is a desire to see the marriage through. All marriages face rocky spots but as clichéd as it may sound, love, faith and trust in each other is what gets us through everything.
The extra pressure comes in when a problem (no matter how small) is magnified in public eye. Everybody is aware about the rough time in our lives and questions are asked. The worst is when there are assumptions made about our marriage. But we have to make peace with the situation and tide through tough times whenever they arise.
The couples above may know the workings of a successful marriage perfectly. But whether you are a celeb or not, it does take time, patience, love and understanding to have a strong marriage.
So if you have the successful marriage formula down to a pat, do write into us and tell us what it takes. You could be the next marriage we feature.
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