Dr. Bhonsle says, "I spoke to a couple recently. The woman told me that she does not like the way he has sex with her. When I spoke to the man, he was so confused. He told me that his ex-wife loved what he did."

In some cases, unconventional and kinky sex may create a rift between partners. If you are uncomfortable with it, let him know. In case you are unable to work it out, speak with a counsellor.

Remember anal sex is illegal and could cause injury.

Fakin' It

If you think that you are doing him a favour by faking it, think again! You are only lying to each other and it will get worse, if he comes to know that you are faking it.

Remember, communication is the key. In case it doesn't work, Dr. Bhonsle suggests involving an external person who will help you rationalise the situation and find a solution.

You could also try couple counselling. But before you involve someone else, try talking to him.