Before all dreams of the furnished apartments vanish in thin air, they have to deal with the strenuous day-to-day tasks because they don't have maids or any help whatsoever. Or, even the case of women who discover that their husband "who was such a great catch" is actually impotent.

So before, you get married, here is a list of intimate queries and facts that you should ask yourself and your would-be, and also know, before you tie the knot.

Money, Money, Money

Money matters are one of the most crucial points to discuss before you say, "I do". Remember, just asking how much he earns in a month is not enough. You need to have that financial compatibility and stability that is important is a successful marriage.

For example, your prospective groom might have given you a long list of achievements and accomplishments, but how many of them tell you their exact salary breakdown? He might have given you his salary figure including all bonuses and commissions and targets, but do you have any idea what is the in-hand amount he gets every month?

Or even for that matter, have you wondered what would happen if you realised during your honeymoon that you husband is a miser, when he refuses to go shopping with you or even have dinner in a fancy restaurant? Don't wait until after the wedding to find out that he does not have any bank balance…

Make sure you find out the following to find out if your marriage is made in money-heaven:

1. What is his monthly in-hand income?

2. Has he taken any personal loans that he is paying off?

3. Is he on a home loan? How many more years does he have to pay off the instalments?

4. Is he okay if you have a separate bank account?

5. Will he allow you to financially support your parents after your marriage?

6. What is the kind of savings he has on a monthly basis?

7. What is his bank balance as of now?

8. Does he have any credit card debt?

9. If you are a working woman, how much of your salary does he expect you to contribute, in terms of monthly expenditure?

10. Is he a spendthrift? How much does he spend every month on extras?

11. Is he a miser?