What is a man without an ambition? Remember, he and you may have the same career aspirations, but different goals. So, it is necessary for both of you to find a common ground regarding your ambitions.
For example, you may be quite ambitious and he could be laid back about his job (or vice versa). You don't want to find out after your wedding that he does not like you working late hours, do you?
Or, your would-be might be extremely encouraging about your job now, but after marriage, you realise that he wants you to quit your job?
Ask him the following questions to know if you click career-wise:
12. How many jobs has he switched till date? What are the reasons for switching the jobs?
13. If he gets a job overseas, will he take it? Will he take it, even if it doesn't offer him a family status?
14. Does he have the kind of ambition to reach top level management someday?
15. What are his work timings like?
16. Will he be okay with your work timings?
17. Will he be okay with you continuing your job, even after you have kids?
Healthy Union
He might have had an illness when he was little, but, do you know if it will affect your kids in the future too?
For example, if your would-be has had a serious illness like typhoid or tuberculosis, it could leave him permanently weak and requiring a specific diet for the rest of his life.
So, make sure you ask the following questions to get medically right with your partner:
18. Did he have any serious childhood health issues like typhoid or tuberculosis?
19. Is there a history of any hereditary disease in his family like cancer, diabetes, heart diseases, etc.?
20. Has he ever had a Sexually Transmitted Infection?
21. Will he take an HIV test with your family doctor?
22. Does he have any penile problems like dysfunction or impotency?












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