Be Firm
If your kid has ADHD, then you need to be very patient while dealing with him.
Avoid shouting at or hitting him. You need to remember that he has a disorder. This doesn't mean you spoil him. You need to be firm when your child is stubborn about certain things. For example, in case he demands a chocolate and you are unable to fulfil the demand, try reasoning with him. If he continues to throw tantrums, just ignore it.
Treatment
ADHD can be treated only by way of medication. The medication will help restore the chemical balance of the neurotransmitter.
The minute you think that your child may have ADHD, consult a psychologist or a psychotherapist. You could also take counselling sessions on how to deal with your kid.
In play therapy, a room is filled with toys and play material like sand, water, etc. The child is left in the room to play and his actions are observed. He is then treated accordingly. This concept is very new in India.
There is no need to worry. Your child is not mentally retarded and can perform well, if professional help is sought. There are no special schools for this disorder, since it is just a disorder similar to that of depression or anxiety.
All you need to do is keep his school authorities, especially his teacher informed, so she can ensure that he is comfortable.
(With inputs from: Dr. Jyothi. Maheshwari, Psychotherapist and Psychiatrist of Stress Management Clinic, Mumbai and Dr. Seema Hingorrany, Child Psychologist)
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