Dr Bhonsle guides couples about basic things they should keep in mind, to make sex more pleasurable for both.
Sex does not become boring because you use the same position, it only happens when you get mechanical about it.
Instead of trying to copy fancy positions from the books, positions that only trained athletes can perform, learn naturally adopt yourself to the most pleasurable position.
Don't try too hard

Remember, various sex positions need not be adopted just because they are available. Pleasure depends on participation and stimulation. Keep these things in mind -
- Try only those positions that are physically possible and don't force them on your partner just because you fancied it.
- The position should come naturally to both of you
- It should suit both of you
- It is very important that both of you find the position pleasurable.
When you adopt positions naturally your instincts will see to it that you have a good time and you won't land up hurting yourself.
The most commonly used position, not just in India, but across the world, is the missionary position (man on top). For many reasons, it may hinder the woman's pleasure, but I believe it is also not ideal for men.
I suggest an alternative, which doesn't require any acrobatics in the bed and will enhance the enjoyment of both men and women - just go the opposite of missionary position (woman on top)!













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