How to Deal with Bedwetting
Nov 16, 2007
Parents often come to me, troubled by their child's bedwetting. Mothers talk about how the child is teased at home, made fun of and often the family blames the mother for the child's bedwetting.
I remember a mother of an eight year old telling me how her son refuses to go to any camps or a friend's house for an overnight stay because he is ashamed of his bedwetting.Bedwetting seems to affect not only the child, but also the family. Often, parents start seeing themselves as a failure.
Children are expected to stay dry through the night and bedwetting only becomes a problem if it continues after the age of five. Bedwetting (Enuresis) can be nocturnal or diurnal (during the day) or both at once.
Bedwetting is considered to be "Primary" if the child has never been dry. Secondary bedwetting refers to bedwetting episodes that occur after a child has been dry at night for a considerable period of time.
Causes of Bedwetting
| Primary | Secondary |
Deep sleeping pattern | Stress due to circumstances such as conflict in school, divorce or death in the family |
| Genetic influence | Medical condition such as urinary tract infection |
| Neurologically immature bladder |
It is important to identify the cause of bedwetting before any curative steps are taken.













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